Paper_Towel
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Yep. Same. I'd feed everytime while she pumped for the next feeding. We were literally one bottle ahead. It was exhausting but I think there's a bond there that some dad's miss out on if the wife is the only one to feed them.We really wanted to breast feed our kids. Our oldest daughter just would not latch on. The lactation consultants would come in and all would be good. Then it would be the middle of the night and we would both be in tears from the baby crying. Once we took her home, when it was time to feed her, I would warm up breast milk that we had frozen and feed the baby while my wife expressed with a beast pump. We bought a separate freezer just for breast milk. It was a lot of work but I got to be a bigger part of the whole process, which I was glad of.
Did you wear one of these?We really wanted to breast feed our kids. Our oldest daughter just would not latch on. The lactation consultants would come in and all would be good. Then it would be the middle of the night and we would both be in tears from the baby crying. Once we took her home, when it was time to feed her, I would warm up breast milk that we had frozen and feed the baby while my wife expressed with a beast pump. We bought a separate freezer just for breast milk. It was a lot of work but I got to be a bigger part of the whole process, which I was glad of.
Completely understood. Figured you didn't mean it that way but I've been seeing a lot of it on social media.You are correct, and, sorry if my initial post was worded poorly and I guess by some could be taken the wrong way. I just see and have seen over the years too many women who refuse to even try was my main point. I remember those initial few days and weeks as well, even though it's been 30 yrs now for us. It was extremely frustrating and my wife would be brought to tears thinking she was doing it all wrong.
*cracks knuckles*Fun fact: Humans are the only mammals that drink milk after infancy. I'll go back to my corner now and watch......to dark outside to color.
UT hospital was almost the death of me. Fun fact, May 18th, 2017, I was admitted to UT hospital after going to the ER. I spent like 10 days there, never getting better. Told them to just let me go home. They threatened to have me pulled of the transplant list if I left. When I threatened to leave anyway the finally contacted my liver doctor, thinking he'd convince me to stay. The fact I was in there at least a week before they even bothered to contact my liver doctor at Vanderbilt should tell you something. He asked for my labs, looked at the numbers, and said he wanted me transferred to Vanderbilt ASAP. So I got to take an ambulance ride from UT Hospital here in Knoxville to Vanderbilt Hospital in Nashville. Pretty quick trip as the ambulance driver was doing 95-100 almost the entire trip. Anyway, if left to their own devices, I'm positively convinced the doctors at UT would have let me die. They don't do liver transplants at UT Knoxville, yet for some reason, it never occurred to them to send someone on the liver transplant list to the hospital that does liver transplants. Dumbasses.Knoxville. UT
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So this isn't entirely true. Some animals have been observed stealing milk from lactating animals of a different species. The first that comes to mind are feral cats that have been observed stealing milk from sleeping seals on a beach. Large predators will also favor the mammary glands on lactating prey to eat first after a kill.
All that being said, we're the only species on Earth that has been known to evolve lactose tolerance after infancy. That's something that some argue makes us uniquely human, though not all origins of our species developed that. Mostly Northern European people who started fermenting milk products and making cheeses, and I think some small nomadic African tribes that had a custom of consuming dairy. The vast majority (65%) of the human population is lactose intolerant beyond infancy, yet milk is commonly consumed in India, much of Central and East Asia (95% of Mongolians are lactose intolerant yet consume milk often), and milk consumption has been pushed in black communities in the US through goverment ad campaigns (Got Milk?) despite 80% being lactose intolerant.
All that said, as a person of European descent that can largely handle dairy without issue, I love milk, ice cream, and cheese. And if we are the only mammal that drinks milk after infancy... we're also the only species that can use a cell phone, we invented the internet, we created beer, and we are the only species that butt chugs it.