but i do have plenty of hard evidence and proof. her actions. if god provided me with such evidence i surely would not be agnostic.
A man (lets call him Tony) arrives home on a Friday night with a bouquet of roses in his hand for his wife (whose name is Kristie
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). She sees them and immediately responds, "those are so lovely" and gives Tony an affectionate kiss. He responds, "but not as lovely as you my dear". Tony then shows his other hand which had been behind his back, and he is holding a diamond necklace which he also gives to Kristie. She coys, "what a beautiful gift"! He responds, "diamonds are forever... and yet my love for you will endure even longer than these diamonds". Kristie gives her husband a long, warm, and loving embrace.
So two weeks prior, Kristie had asked Tony if they could plan a full day together since he had been spending numerous hours at work as well as many weeks away from home traveling on business. He, of course, agreed that would be a good idea. They penciled in a date on the calendar for Saturday in two weeks. Kristie asked again if he was sure that day would be okay, and Tony assured her that it would.
A week passes and Kristie asks Tony again if the coming Saturday was still available for them to spend together. He responds, "I've blocked it on my outlook calendar and there is nothing I would rather do than to spend the day with you".
Five more days have passed and each day Kristie mentions how much she is looking forward to Saturday, and Tony confirms that he is really looking forward to it as well.
Friday at work (the day before their planned day together) one of Tony's friends mentions he needs a fourth to play a round of golf on Saturday. Tony replies that unfortunately he can not play, as he had already made plans to spend the day with his wife. His friend then mentions that the tee time is for Augusta National, which as everyone knows is one of the most exclusive clubs in the world... and is also one of the 10 things on Tony's "bucket" list! To add to the fun, his friend also mentions that the greens fees are paid for and they will be taking a private jet from Chattanooga to Augusta.
Fast forward to Friday evening to the scene previously mentioned, where Tony has presented Kristie with roses and a diamond necklace. The only thing that hasn't happened as yet is that Tony still has to tell Kristie that he will be playing golf on Saturday instead of spending the day with her as previously planned.
Now, once Tony has informed Kristie of his "new plans" for Saturday his prior actions of giving her roses and a diamond necklace... as well as his loving words... take on a completely different meaning. The moral of the story being... the exact same
actions, absent a full understanding of the motive driving those actions, can clearly take on different meaning depending on ones perspective.
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