Steve McNair found, shot to death

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VolBeef88 said:
Not true. It is not all that uncommon to come to an agreement between both parties before the divorce is even filed in order to make it go faster. I know of several who have done it that way and never even stepped foot in court.
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VolBeef88 said:
If both parties come to an agreement before it is filed then it takes no time at all.
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Please clarify what you mean by "no time at all".
 
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vollygirl said:
Please clarify what you mean by "no time at all".
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If both parties agree on money matters, property and child visitation/custody then I have seen it take as little as 2 weeks or so.
It doesnt even have to go to court or court as we know it. A judge can just agree to it and it will be over really quick.
 
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VolBeef88 said:
If both parties agree on money matters, property and child visitation/custody then I have seen it take as little as 2 weeks or so.
It doesnt even have to go to court or court as we know it. A judge can just agree to it and it will be over really quick.
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In the state of Tennessee it is a minimum 90 days when there are minor children involved. Look it up. You don't have a clue what you're talking about.
 
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if we start blasting every nfl player who cheats on his wife there will be zero "heros" left
 
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vollygirl said:
In the state of Tennessee it is a minimum 90 days when there are minor children involved. Look it up. You don't have a clue what you're talking about.
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Did I say the 2 week divorce happened in TN? But in TN if you have an agreement ahead of time before filing it will take the state minimum so yes I do know what I'm talking about.
 
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vader said:
I agree...they are not heroes.
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What "hero" actually is? If you think about it there are very few people that are thought of as heroes who don't have something in their closet that would diminish their legend. After all, they are human and by nature fallible.

I prefer to look at it this way, McNair was a perfect example of determination, athletic ability and heart on the football field. In this way people can point to these characteristics and use them as an example of how to achieve goals in their daily lives. Sadly, the circumstances surrounding his death can also serve as an example, an example of what not to do in respect to your family.

He was a hero on the field and an example of the personal faults in respect to his family off the field. The sad thing here is that he never had a chance to make amends to his family, the fact that they had to learn of things this way (assuming they didn't know) is even more tragic. Bottom line is despite what appears to his shortcomings on the surface, the man was murdered and robbed of the chance to do right by his family. It is a very good possibility the man was murdered because he saw the err of his ways and was trying to take the steps to make it right. i don't know anymore than you guys on the subject but it is as plausible as any other motive with what we know.

As for the article I found it odd that the writer went out of his way so many times saying things to the effect of "I'm not one to judge or criticize", only to do so in the very next sentence by making assumptions. After all, at this point all we really have to go on is assumptions with what little info we have. I do agree with him about his kids, though as I pointed out he was denied the opportunity to make this right.
 
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To be fair, as has been stated about us not knowing what the situation was, for all we know McNair could have been in the process of "making it right". It's not far-fetched to think he was breaking it off with this lady, and maybe he was doing so in hopes of saving his marriage. We may never know what really happened or the circumstances, which is what KB just said.
 
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I just read that McNair was shot in both temples (the two head shots) and twice in the chest. With that info out there it is safe to say that this was overkill, a rage killing. This may be an indication that McNair was breaking it off or possibly telling her they should tone it down some. What other motive could there possibly be? Suicide pact maybe?
 
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KB5252 said:
I just read that McNair was shot in both temples (the two head shots) and twice in the chest. With that info out there it is safe to say that this was overkill, a rage killing. This may be an indication that McNair was breaking it off or possibly telling her they should tone it down some. What other motive could there possibly be? Suicide pact maybe?
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One was at close range which meant that she had to be right up against him. The other 3 shots were about 3 feet away. I believe that he may have been trying to break up with her. But he had to be asleep because I think he would have tired to stop her or something.
 
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My wife in convinced that she was pregnant and they had a falling out because of that.
 
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turn3 said:
My wife in convinced that she was pregnant and they had a falling out because of that.
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If she was pregnant I believe that bit of news would have been public after the autopsy was performed. It was a strong possibility in my mind at first as well.
 
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tnvolsfan85 said:
One was at close range which meant that she had to be right up against him. The other 3 shots were about 3 feet away. I believe that he may have been trying to break up with her. But he had to be asleep because I think he would have tired to stop her or something.
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He might have been asleep or she may have surprised him, I think it would have had to have been a well placed shot to the temple and then two to the chest, the last temple a finishing shot, very unlikely she could have pulled that off though IMO. I guess I agree with you it must have come while he was either asleep or focused on something else.
 
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KB5252 said:
He might have been asleep or she may have surprised him, I think it would have had to have been a well placed shot to the temple and then two to the chest, the last temple a finishing shot, very unlikely she could have pulled that off though IMO. I guess I agree with you it must have come while he was either asleep or focused on something else.
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The last 3 had to be rage shots. I think he would have tired to stop her it would have showed some kind of struggle.

So you think someone else did it?
 
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tnvolsfan85 said:
The last 3 had to be rage shots. I think he would have tired to stop her it would have showed some kind of struggle.

So you think someone else did it?
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No, it was most likely a shot to the temple first. There would have been some evidence, trace or otherwise left at the scene. If it was someone else they would have had to have been a professional.

Edit: Perhaps there was some evidence that might have been removed from the scene, Don Aaron did kind of sidestep that question when asked of him. either way I find it doubtful that police think anything would have been disturbed that was of great significance to the case, otherwise they would not be leaning toward labeling it a murder suicide. Perhaps it was drugs or something else the friends (those that found the murder scene) thought would be embarrassing to McNair or possibly incriminate them.
 
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KB5252 said:
No, it was most likely a shot to the temple first. There would have been some evidence, trace or otherwise left at the scene. If it was someone else they would have had to have been a professional.

Edit: Perhaps there was some evidence that might have been removed from the scene, Don Aaron did kind of sidestep that question when asked of him. either way I find it doubtful that police think anything would have been disturbed that was of great significance to the case, otherwise they would not be leaning toward labeling it a murder suicide. Perhaps it was drugs or something else the friends (those that found the murder scene) thought would be embarrassing to McNair or possibly incriminate them.
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I noticed he did that as well. Now they are saying that after he bailed her out of jail she went that night ALONE to purchase the handgun. Perhaps she was mad because she got arrested?
 
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Maybe McNair started to break up with her that night. From my experiences, a break up usually takes a while and is rarely done in one instance.
 
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It's just hard to believe that a 20 year old woman would pull the trigger, 2 in each temple, and 2 to the chest, then on herself. It probably happened that way, but it's hard to believe. Even from 3 feet away, it's not hard to miss your target.
 
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