IF that last is the case, the however miniscule increase of risk to biological women is too much, it doesn't require hate of trans to want to take action to protect biological women.
the bolded is the point I was trying to drive to, I am sorry if you took insult with the way I was taking the conversation. it was not my intent. I just get tired of the lazy argument that one must hate trans people to not want them in the bathroom with biological women, and I was trying to show how/why that is with the same thinking that we need to take care of the trans members of society. we aren't that different, and most of the differences come down to a matter of preference rather than hate/bigotry.
granted hate and bigotry can be a factor for some of the preferences, but that shouldn't invalidate similar preferences because of association.