so its just more of the no-true-scotsman. unless you are a certain class you need to sit in the corner and shut up while others are talking. its more of the same, no real desire to improve, diversity without inclusion.
everyone has a choice about how you live your lives. sure others face more adversity, never disputed that, just saying its something some of us have a concept of. flat out rejection doesn't move the conversation forward or help anyone. if you want a solution that works for the widest swathe of people you need to include the widest swathe of people. otherwise you have the same problem just in a different location, and history repeats itself.
if people want a safe place to just yell at those who are different from them, I am not going to try and dig them out. but I also don't want to hear them complain that there are no solutions when they desperately hold to that mindset and express the very hate they claim to want changed.