Arguably, Wisconsin (11-1), W. Va (10-2), Va. Tech (10-2), Rutgers (10-2), have at least equal claim to your spot. Teams like Auburn who should be in but are not eligible because of the two team conference rule should complain about you not having the same rule. The reason that Rutgers and West Va. in my opinion should be in ahead of you is simple: If ND joined a conference, Hell, any conference, they would not be BCS eligible. If the Irish were in the Big East, they have at least four losses, and are lucky to be in any bowl.
Why the venom towards Quinn. First, haven't heard a lot of it, but he should know that even though half of the free world will kiss his a** because he is the Irish QB, the other half will loathe him because of it. There is no gray area with ND, either you are a fan, or you are sick and tired of the backbending that everyone from the NCAA to NBC does for them.