Tiffany's Thread (updates and prayers, and a place where she can smack Joe in public when he needs it :)

[ArdentVol]

Maybe just another bad spell, but she's bad right now. We'd stopped after the Dr, and she looked and sounded horrible, she's a gray color. We were headed home, and her sister called and said her oxygen was 50. Tiffany told them call 911, and they've taken her to the hospital, we're here now. They've got her on 15 liters of oxygen right now, that's a lot, sounds like too much almost. Just pray for her, and Tiffany, she's a mess.

praying for all

 

[ArdentVol]

One night about a week or so before my Dad died, we were told that night was likely it. Everyone in town gathered in the room that night, 12 - 14 I guess, maybe more. Can’t imagine if they told us there was a limit of people allowed in the room.

We were there all night, singing songs and hymns and praying. I don’t think I could describe how it felt, but in a way it was both dread and cathartic. There were numerous times we all thought he had taken his last breath, but he made it through the night.

Sorry for telling this here, but much of this has reminded of those couple of weeks.

@NorCalVol67
Yes
Last saw Dad in Shannondale nursing home after the Tenn-Vandy game in 2014. and he asked how the Vandy game had ended. We had won, and he pumped his arm like a boxer. I was back in Knoxville after his passing on 12/13/14 and prepared his obituary that day for the Knoxville News-Sentinel. He had lived in the home he built on Scenic in the late 50s until buying a home in Buckingham more than 10 years after Mom passed in 1998.

I wonder that the star I use on VN suggest sa Vandy fan.
Dad would have liked an image of George Cafego

@vol66

 

[Vjcvette]

Maybe just another bad spell, but she's bad right now. We'd stopped after the Dr, and she looked and sounded horrible, she's a gray color. We were headed home, and her sister called and said her oxygen was 50. Tiffany told them call 911, and they've taken her to the hospital, we're here now. They've got her on 15 liters of oxygen right now, that's a lot, sounds like too much almost. Just pray for her, and Tiffany, she's a mess.

 

[malinoisvol]

O Lord, through the passion of the most sacred heart of Jesus, I beseech Thee to heal Tiffany. We thank you for giving her and her family the courage to face the situations so that others may see your perpetual light shining through them, a beacon of strength that overcomes setbacks, and reaffirms your precious love for all. In the name of Jesus Christ, King of Kings, please hear and bless this prayer O Heavenly Father. Amen

 

[joevol33]

They're finally going to try to drain her lungs. They hit a roadblock with pneumonia, but gonna try it in a bit. We can't stay, gotta go to Tiffany's appointment in a bit.

 

[ArdentVol]

They're finally going to try to drain her lungs. They hit a roadblock with pneumonia, but gonna try it in a bit. We can't stay, gotta go to Tiffany's appointment in a bit.

 

[VolNExile]

They're finally going to try to drain her lungs. They hit a roadblock with pneumonia, but gonna try it in a bit. We can't stay, gotta go to Tiffany's appointment in a bit.

Prayers also. Pneumonia on top of everything else...

 

[joevol33]

Prayers also. Pneumonia on top of everything else...

Yeah, I won't even mention how the medical expert in the family has her dad convinced that pneumonia is the cause of everything, and the cancer isn't an issue. Mind you, she's only had pneumonia a few days, but that's why she can't breathe, low oxygen, and apparently her lungs eat up with tumors. She's currently passed out at their house from the marijuana stuff

 

[malinoisvol]

 

[WestTennesseeFox]

Yeah, I won't even mention how the medical expert in the family has her dad convinced that pneumonia is the cause of everything, and the cancer isn't an issue. Mind you, she's only had pneumonia a few days, but that's why she can't breathe, low oxygen, and apparently her lungs eat up with tumors. She's currently passed out at their house from the marijuana stuff

Someone needs an ass beating.

 

[82_VOL_83]

Joe, can you not talk to someone at the hospital and have them talk to Tiff's dad? Get a restraining order at least for the hospital.

 

[joevol33]

Joe, can you not talk to someone at the hospital and have them talk to Tiff's dad? Get a restraining order at least for the hospital.

It'd be useless, he's holding on her every word, because he wants everything to be okay. I understand that, but he's not going to accept reality, he'll take anything else. Before we left he was telling us that all her breathing issues would be over soon as they drained the fluid. Pneumonia was better, and the fluid (from the pneumonia he thinks) was the last thing, and she'd be like new. In reality, Tiffany has been on the phone with him since they finished, because he doesn't understand why her breathing actually got worse since the procedure. They can't get her oxygen above 80 right now, and that's with oxygen on.

 

[VolNExile]

It'd be useless, he's holding on her every word, because he wants everything to be okay. I understand that, but he's not going to accept reality, he'll take anything else. Before we left he was telling us that all her breathing issues would be over soon as they drained the fluid. Pneumonia was better, and the fluid (from the pneumonia he thinks) was the last thing, and she'd be like new. In reality, Tiffany has been on the phone with him since they finished, because he doesn't understand why her breathing actually got worse since the procedure. They can't get her oxygen above 80 right now, and that's with oxygen on.

I'm so sorry. It must be so awful just to deal with eventually losing a parent (and wife), and then all this other crap on top. God's peace on Tiffany and everyone else.

 

[Vol since 77]

 

[NorCalVol67]

It'd be useless, he's holding on her every word, because he wants everything to be okay. I understand that, but he's not going to accept reality, he'll take anything else. Before we left he was telling us that all her breathing issues would be over soon as they drained the fluid. Pneumonia was better, and the fluid (from the pneumonia he thinks) was the last thing, and she'd be like new. In reality, Tiffany has been on the phone with him since they finished, because he doesn't understand why her breathing actually got worse since the procedure. They can't get her oxygen above 80 right now, and that's with oxygen on.

Hope he doesn’t resent her after all this.

 

[joevol33]

Hope he doesn’t resent her after all this.

Me and Tiffany have talked about this.

 

[joevol33]

I'm so sorry. It must be so awful just to deal with eventually losing a parent (and wife), and then all this other crap on top. God's peace on Tiffany and everyone else.

It's sad that there are 4 of those girls, and the one who's fighting for her health has to be the adult. The twin isn't no help, trying to sleep her way into her new boyfriend's house. The oldest stays high, so she's no help, and the medical expert is an idiot. Not to mention, she's no help because she won't stay out of the stuff she got for her mom.

 

[NorCalVol67]

It's sad that there are 4 of those girls, and the one who's fighting for her health has to be the adult. The twin isn't no help, trying to sleep her way into her new boyfriend's house. The oldest stays high, so she's no help, and the medical expert is an idiot. Not to mention, she's no help because she won't stay out of the stuff she got for her mom.

Sad situation.

I am so blessed with the family I have.

 

[VolNExile]

It's sad that there are 4 of those girls, and the one who's fighting for her health has to be the adult. The twin isn't no help, trying to sleep her way into her new boyfriend's house. The oldest stays high, so she's no help, and the medical expert is an idiot. Not to mention, she's no help because she won't stay out of the stuff she got for her mom.

This is probably terrible of me, but somehow, this is the thing that pizzes me off the most. Not the denying, not the general idiotic ostrich mode stuff, but stealing what was intended for her mom for her own buzz. I mean, stealing pain relief from those who are in pain; that's just horrendous.

 

[82_VOL_83]

It'd be useless, he's holding on her every word, because he wants everything to be okay. I understand that, but he's not going to accept reality, he'll take anything else. Before we left he was telling us that all her breathing issues would be over soon as they drained the fluid. Pneumonia was better, and the fluid (from the pneumonia he thinks) was the last thing, and she'd be like new. In reality, Tiffany has been on the phone with him since they finished, because he doesn't understand why her breathing actually got worse since the procedure. They can't get her oxygen above 80 right now, and that's with oxygen on.

I don't have words brother.

 

[BigOrangeMojo]

Sad situation.

I am so blessed with the family I have.

I've had some fun with the antics of WTF's family but Tiffany's family is a whole different level of crazy...

 

[82_VOL_83]

Go find the stash and take it to your house. Hide it. Maybe she will leave if there aren't any free drugs.

 

[joevol33]

I've had some fun with the antics of WTF's family but Tiffany's family is a whole different level of crazy...

Man, I could tell some stories. I've said before, they'd make Jerry Springer blush, and that's no exaggeration. Thankfully, her mom and dad changed with us. Her sister's, I just bite my tongue mostly. I don't speak with her brother in law who is a convicted child molester. Technically, he doesn't speak to me ever since I told him I'd kill him if he ever touched my kids. The lawyer brother in law (who defends sex offenders and brags about it)didn't speak to me either after I told him my opinion of him, but they're divorced now. I don't even have time to get into the type of things her sisters have done . From calling me and Tiffany disguising their voices to try to convince Tiffany that I was cheating, to one grabbing me wanting me to sleep with her. I swear, you all wouldn't even believe most of it

 

[ArdentVol]

Man, I could tell some stories. I've said before, they'd make Jerry Springer blush, and that's no exaggeration. Thankfully, her mom and dad changed with us. Her sister's, I just bite my tongue mostly. I don't speak with her brother in law who is a convicted child molester. Technically, he doesn't speak to me ever since I told him I'd kill him if he ever touched my kids. The lawyer brother in law (who defends sex offenders and brags about it)didn't speak to me either after I told him my opinion of him, but they're divorced now. I don't even have time to get into the type of things her sisters have done . From calling me and Tiffany disguising their voices to try to convince Tiffany that I was cheating, to one grabbing me wanting me to sleep with her. I swear, you all wouldn't even believe most of it

 

[malinoisvol]

I'm so sorry. It must be so awful just to deal with eventually losing a parent (and wife), and then all this other crap on top. God's peace on Tiffany and everyone else.

Amen