wildnkrazykat
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Let's not conflate a desire to support Tyler with the legal circumstances. In this case, consent does not matter one whit.
I am a college professor. If I had a sexual relation with A STUDENT IN MY CLASS OR UNDER MY SUPERVISION, I would be subject to disciplinary action, including dismissal. Do you understand? This action is a violation of code of conduct policies; you simply can't do it within the regulations that govern faculty behaviors, unless you are very good at keeping completely secret. Once it is know, consenting or not consenting, it is a violation.
These codes are written with the assumption that there is a power discrepancy between faculty and students or coaches and athletes. Tyler had to know the code of conduct policies because that is a part of one's institutional training. In effect, he broke the rules, took the risk, and is now paying the consequences.
Now, in the future, a University who would be looking at Tyler for a coaching spot has to ask: do we trust someone who has violated one of the most important axioms of University code of conduct policies (official)? and who did so while married (a subjective and moralistic assessment that is bound to be made at least some institutions and to be a concern among alumni).
I appreciate the motivation for the counterarguments seeking to defend Tyler Summitt's besieged reputation. In effect, this is Tyler Summitt, Pat's son! We know he is a good guy who would not do a bad thing; if Tyler had an affair it, it must have been a justifiable situation, somehow, someway, just because....
Well, let's put aside the issue of his being married and cheating on his wife; If we just take that small matter out of the equation, then it is very possible Tyler can still be a good guy if both parties were consenting adults, right?
NO, not in his role as coach!! He had a institutional responsibility to maintain a professional relationship with his athletes. He violated a trust that came with his position. If he did not want that responsibility, then he should have not taken the job.
Let me ask you this. if this were Geno A. in similar circumstances, would you be defending him?
Just a sad, sad story to taint his mothers legacy by following in his fathers footsteps. Especially as she lives out her life in the fog of dementia, SMH.
Tyler is forever tied to this university, another black eye. Good lord can this sports community ever catch a break.
My recommendations to that young man is to try and correct the wrongs with your wife.
Take care of this young lady who is apparently with child.
Once those things are set on the right course move to Europe for ten years.
Yup. High school sweethearts can work but people change.
http://www.hannapub.com/basketball-...cle_b13f26bc-3c54-11e5-8b1d-9f155990c341.html
It's all speculation at this point, but it does appear that their relationship (Tyler Summit and Brooke Pumoroy?) at Marquette was all professional. It evolved into what it was once they transferred to LA Tech. After reading the article I can easily see what happened...
I have respect for a man who totally owns up to his mistakes, doesn't blame others or circumstances, and takes responsibility that includes real penalty. Tyler did that and I give him credit for it. Not many in this day and age are capable of doing all three.
I can't imagine Brooke saying to a reporter, "And then Tyler was moving to LA Tech, but I've been sleeping with him for 2 years and he's gonna leave his wife for me, so I followed him."
At this point, we don't know how the relationship came to be. Nothing in the article says otherwise.
Basketball roots run deep for La. Tech's Santos | | hannapub.com
It's all speculation at this point, but it does appear that their relationship (Tyler Summit and Brooke Pumoroy?) at Marquette was all professional. It evolved into what it was once Pumroy (& Santos) transferred to LA Tech. After reading the article I can easily see what happened...
You have a point there; what's troubling is that according to the article Santos sought for a transfer right after Tyler got a job offer at La Tech & BEFORE her head coach at Marquette got fired. I can expect the worst scenario now; maybe Tyler got romantically involved with Santos at first and then moved on to Pumroy later, and got the latter pregnant. Sad sad story. Very messy..
You have a point there; what's troubling is that according to the article Santos sought for a transfer right after Tyler got a job offer at La Tech & BEFORE her head coach at Marquette got fired. I can expect the worst scenario now; maybe Tyler got romantically involved with Santos at first and then moved on to Pumroy later, and got the latter pregnant. Sad sad story. Very messy..
Unless you are perfect yourself. I have been married for a lot of years and never messed around on my wife. That said, I don't believe in kicking a person when they are down. He messed up, he's not perfect.
Just a sad, sad story to taint his mothers legacy by following in his fathers footsteps. Especially as she lives out her life in the fog of dementia, SMH.
Tyler is forever tied to this university, another black eye. Good lord can this sports community ever catch a break.
My recommendations to that young man is to try and correct the wrongs with your wife.
Take care of this young lady who is apparently with child.
Once those things are set on the right course move to Europe for ten years.