Started playing in 6th grade in Amarillo, TX; played through my first year of college. Not sure I ever gave a damn about my reputation.
I never said that the play should not have been penalized. Facemask offenses should be penalized, as well. That does not mean that tugging on a facemask by instinct, when you happen to find yourself in that situation, is a bush league move. It is football, it happens. You are going to get ear-holed, and you are going to get tossed around and land in awkward and dangerous positions.
I have serious doubts that Fanning planned to suplex anyone before that play; I have even more serious doubts that he thought of doing that during the play. He found himself in that situation and he got the ball carrier to the ground. It is instinct.
Of course, you do not see this much in football. First, the position itself was awkward. Second, the running back for Mizzou was tiny. Third, Fanning is a pretty big and strong guy. That is why this happened. It is usually secondary players who find themselves pulling back on running backs in that position. Most secondary players do not have the strength and power to then toss the running back backwards over their head while the running back is still trying to move forward.
Ride out that apology line as far as you like; just know, that to be consistent, you will have to say that anytime a coach or a player apologizes, after a non-controversial hit that injures a player, you will have to say that the hit and the player were wrong.