How good of a decision maker were you at 13. I know, I know you deal with this often, but maybe that has made your opinion skewed.
I think you look for pattern of behavior. Some people are just scumbags, period. I think this was a wrong place, wrong time incident. Sure he could have made a better decison and regrets to this day he had, but if you haven't walked a mile in someone else's shoes, then you are making biased judgements.
Never had any legal problems not even a speeding ticket, and I have enforced the law for over 10 years. I have seen enough faces of victims of things like this that I will not just forgive someone that easily. You can sit behind your desks and talk about forgiveness but when you have seen this over and over first hand and what it does to people it wouldnt be so easy.
You can keep preaching forgiveness in here all you want, I am a Christian, probably spend more time in church than most of you going off on the Jesus tangent. God can forgive him but right now I dont feel like this kid needs to be a part of this University, period.
My letter is already in to Mike Hamilton and I am sure there will be plenty more. I am done with this its a losing battle some of you are just too high and mighty in your perfect worlds to see the problem this is.
Anyone not comparing college football (in today's generation, anyway) to a job is kidding themselves. It is basically thinking of it as "temp-to-hire" or "entry level" even if there is no monetary compensation for playing (usually....)
But because with how college football works, especially at a university like ours, image is a very big thing and any AD (acting as a hiring manager) should be considered well within his powers to pass on this kid's background check.
There's a difference between some measly Lane Kiffin accusations and secondary violations and this. I don't think this has much to do with his forgiveness, he can definitely be a changed young adult for all I know and he may never even look at a spider with a sinister thought again, but he shouldn't be given any special treatments.
That's stupid. so your saying if it was Bryce Brown you would forgive him, but since he's not a stud, we don't want him at our university. hmmmm...
I'm sorry, I do admit I'm a bit rusty with the Verse, where is it written that he forgot?
Anyone not comparing college football (in today's generation, anyway) to a job is kidding themselves. It is basically thinking of it as "temp-to-hire" or "entry level" even if there is no monetary compensation for playing (usually....)
But because with how college football works, especially at a university like ours, image is a very big thing and any AD (acting as a hiring manager) should be considered well within his powers to pass on this kid's background check.
There's a difference between some measly Lane Kiffin accusations and secondary violations and this. I don't think this has much to do with his forgiveness, he can definitely be a changed young adult for all I know and he may never even look at a spider with a sinister thought again, but he shouldn't be given any special treatments.
He was involved in raping his cousin. How can anyone defend that?
Thats a pretty far peace, in that great expanse there is no room for rememberance. I find no examples of Christ ever bringing rememberance to an individual of their sins?
FWIW I do pastor a Baptist Church, If you want the exact scripture, I'll give it to you in a few minutes, if you want me to do that.
Even if it were a prank gone bad, the rape still took place. No excuse is acceptable. What concerns me more is reading the assesments on this kid. In twenty years of working these type cases I have never witnessed a "converted sex offender". The risks in this situation far outweigh the reward.The facts were not written by his lawyer. They were written by the court after interviewing all the witnesses, including the victim. It was a prank that got out of hand.
Ok. so you want good press. How bout a good story of former criminal having success with character and football. . .. . sounds pretty good attention to me.