not to make light of the discussion, or completely derail the conversation, but do you ever get tricked by women who dress like men or have a quality that you find attractive in men? Not like trans or drag/reverse drag, but just some part looks like a guy, and you find yourself being temporarily attracted to that physical asset despite it being on the wrong gender?
Like for me, I see someone ahead of me in yoga pants, with a nice looking butt, I think dang that chicks got a nice butt. Eventually they turn around and its a dude, and the moments ruined. no longer interested in their butt. I am not quiet sure what the equivalent would be, and don't want to assume what you are attracted to, but I imagine its happened. just curious.
and I am sure I opened myself up to some comments there.