Catbone
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We also have too many wanting to kick someone off the team without an investigation. If he is guilty of physically trying to strangle this lady then he needs to be in jail and off the team immediately. If they were just playing around and she went psycho and he stood in her way of trying to leave to try and talk it out....then it is a very grey area. Something like that could happen to anyone on this board.
Agreed 100%
"You play fight with a girl and accidentally hurt her"
Is very different
In fact I was "play fighting" with my son a few days ago and accident cut his leg on the side of a bed. My wife hasn't Spoken to me since but do I belong in the general population at the state pen as a child abuser?
And if you had knowingly strangled him, what would your wife had done? Putting your hands around a smaller, weaker person's throat and squeezing hard enough and long enough to make a woman-- or a child-- almost pass out is not the same as an accidental cut on the leg while "play fighting"-- is it?
Again, my issue is hoping that UT has a consistent policy for handling assault cases-- and so far, that seems to be so.
In all seriousness yes play fighting does include something like that with myself and my young one. It's all in fun and I obviously know when to stop but yes he yells stop. It's all playful wrestling that I Perceive most good dads do with their kids.
I agree that a set policy is needed and IMO the most severe that policy can possible be is to suspend every athlete until the process gives enough evidence to do more or less
Good grief.lol
Oh come on. I put the old wrestling move where I squeeze him with my legs. It's all good fun and harmless.
Now back to the topic
Play fighting could very easily lead to reasonable doubt to how and when injuries occurred
Agreed 100%
"You play fight with a girl and accidentally hurt her"
Is very different
In fact I was "play fighting" with my son a few days ago and accidently cut his leg on the side of a bed. My wife hasn't Spoken to me since but do I belong in the general population at the state pen as a child abuser?
You seem desperate to make your point that it's too early to convict the guy.
The broader point, which can't be argued, is that whatever he did or didn't do, his choices brought much more negative publicity upon his team and university. For now, that's plenty.
You think that play fighting in a sexual context, including causing a near lack of consciousness, and then attempting to have sex with that someone who is saying no, is the same thing?In all seriousness yes play fighting does include something like that with myself and my young one. It's all in fun and I obviously know when to stop but yes he yells stop. It's all playful wrestling that I Perceive most good dads do with their kids.
I agree that a set policy is needed and IMO the most severe that policy can possible be is to suspend every athlete until the process gives enough evidence to do more or less
Sexual assault with someone of age is light years removed from pedophilia. Crowder could have been a model citizen while here and then decided that he was on his own and could act accordingly. I don't see either as major reflections on the team.
You think that play fighting in a sexual context, including causing a near lack of consciousness, and then attempting to have sex with that someone who is saying no, is the same thing?
I sure don't.
If someone gets "carried away" (trying to be a bit formal in my language), and the other person isn't carried away as well and says no, then get up, tell him/her good night, and take a cold shower.
And maybe choose a different partner and different umm... game? next time.
I don't believe for a second that Hart or Butch or any other member of the team or athletic department is responsible for Mack's actions.....only Mack is.
But they're certainly all going to be tainted to some degree by it.
My apologies as I didn't see the IF in your post
Blocking a door for a short period of time in an argument doesn't make the person a criminal IMO. If so I should be in jail.
Counsel for the defense can argue consensual sex games, and assuming Johnson is a first-offender, he could receive a misdemeanor pretrial diversion. Which would leave UT with the same question: what's the university's policy for handling players charged-- not accused, but arrested and charged-- with a felony assault against a female?
Factor in today's political climate, prevailing public opinion about athletes and domestic assault, UT's current legal situation and CBJ's past actions and comments -- we will mitigate risk.
As a female, being blocked in is terrifying. An argument should always be fair. A man using his size to control an argument in any way is abuse. So, maybe you should be in jail. . .
I have to agree with you, Kristy. People (male or female)should be able to come or go as they please. I don't think trapping someone in a room is something to be taken lightly. Especially when the person doing the trapping is much larger. I'm not saying that is what happened here, just as an overall rule. I wouldn't do that to my wife, no way.
IMO, a logical, intelligent conclusion...
IMO, an illogical, ignorant conclusion..
Sexual assault used to mean something a person should be have their balls cut off for doing
Now it seems so different
The report could easily be a kid on a dance floor touching a girl and and she bumped into him as she got away from him. I just don't see such a situation as a sexual assault. More like a misunderstanding where a male thought a girl wanted something she didn't
Now if this is describing a situation where the female was restrained and wasn't allowed to leave that's a other story. That's why I asked what that part meant