I try not to come across like that but when I am constantly told I'm wrong, have warped thinking, damned to hell (which is actually funny to a person like me), etc it kinda ticks me off. It shouldn't but it does. I've seen people with similar beliefs as mine given such hell in threads like these on VN that they quit posting altogether. I have a problem with people telling me that if I don't live my life by the rules of a book written by man then I am worth less than they are. I ask, is that truly the message you are trying to send?
Here you have a chance to do what dozens of posts in this thread claim is the job of all Christians, spread the word to non-believers, but when given the chance most choose to point fingers and call names. I am comfortable with who I am and what I believe but it seems many here are just paying lip service to what they believe. Again I ask, is that truly the message you are trying to send?
As for the other part of your post, there are billions of people in the world right now who may hear the word "Christian" but never have the opportunity to know what it means (besides maybe infidel). The fact that the hard-line Christians say they will never get to enjoy the afterlife that their creator made for them is pure arrogance IMO.
I spent most of my earlier life in a large church in Knoxville. I know the scriptures and I know what I was taught they mean. At a point I actually studied them and the history of the church/Bible and decided I did not believe much of what was said. Many people do and that's great but it's not for me. I apologize if I have offended anyone but if challenging their beliefs like they challenge mine is wrong then this place just wouldn't be fun anymore.