Extremely offensive? Oh come on. Calling a gay man a "*********" is extremely offensive. A white man calling a black man "******" in a mean tone is offensive. Having a professional football team called the Redskins is offensive.
Saying "**** her in the *****"? Inappropriate but not extremely offensive
Offensive to me is offending one's race, religion, ethnicity. Saying something sexual just isn't offensive to me.
Chances are you're not a female.
Chances are you don't have a daughter, let alone one old enough to be on the same campus as the big man on campus accused of raping another student.
I could be wrong, but I doubt it.
Ah the old "You don't understand" argument. Always effective.
I do have an 18 year old sister who is in college. While she would find it stupid and inappropriate she wouldn't be offended because there isn't really anything to be offended about with a sex act being uttered.
Here's a simple experiment. Find the most public place where you work. Get on the table and do a Jameis.
See what happens and report back.
1) He didn't say it at a workplace he said it in a college cafeteria. There is a difference.
2) Did I ever say it was correct to say it? No. My point being that make him run stairs for days. If that's all he said and he was honest about the situation, I'm sorry, but a 20 year old saying a sex act in public isn't suspension worthy.
Thanks for validating my assumption.
Your perspective differs from that of a parent, that's all I'm saying. Not saying I'm right and you're wrong.
When/if you have a daughter, and you still feel the same way then as you do now, I'd be very surprised.
Thanks for validating my assumption.
Your perspective differs from that of a parent, that's all I'm saying. Not saying I'm right and you're wrong.
When/if you have a daughter, and you still feel the same way then as you do now, I'd be very surprised.
I'm glad FSU decided to suspend him for the whole game. Guy most likely belongs in prison and is a creep at best. I'm tired of people trying to rationalize the actions of big-time athletes. Let me tell you a little something about big-time athletes. I've taught a lot of them. Most of them are idiots. There.
You know how campus discipline works. If any student on campus did this they'd probably at least have to go through the student judicial board (assuming people complained).
I served on the judicial board at my last school - the students are often tougher on fellow students then the faculty were.
They won't hesitate to take anyone to Office of Equity and Diversity or other official review boards. Only tangentially related, but I had a colleague once (when we were GTAs) have a student complain about him cutting classes too short. That's right, a college student actually complained to a review board about not having to sit in class the entire time. You never know what they'll be offended by or do, that's for sure.