Marriage

If ever been married, have you had a marriage that ended in divorce?

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#476
#476
brandonco05 said:
Oh yeah. She had already cheated with this guy once, but I gave her another chance. Now she has our son living with this guy and were not even divorced yet. The worst part of it is there's nothing I can do about it.
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That makes it all the more worse. There is nothing you can do about it. Would never have done anything like this. @ all. Sorry bro.
 
#477
#477
brandonco05 said:
Yes
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With me, if the guy didn't know then I held no ill will toward him. It was all on her. But, if he knew and went along anyway. His ass was beat.

Most the folks I ran around with knew I would get even so they never messed with my girl. But the ole boys on the outside, all they saw was a skinny young man. Problem was, I was insanely vindictive back then.


You owe this guy a beat down. He knows you owe him one and any man worth his salt would take it.
 
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Obsessed said:
With me, if the guy didn't know then I held no ill will toward him. It was all on her. But, if he knew and went along anyway. His ass was beat.

Most the folks I ran around with knew I would get even so they never messed with my girl. But the ole boys on the outside, all they saw was a skinny young man. Problem was, I was insanely vindictive back then.


You owe this guy a beat down. He knows you owe him one and any man worth his salt would take it.
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I've avoided meeting him because I know I'll lose it when I do, and I don't want my son to see me like that.
 
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#480
brandonco05 said:
I've avoided meeting him because I know I'll lose it when I do, and I don't want my son to see me like that.
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The sad part is, he'd probably have you arrested. Then you'd serve jail time and probably wouldn't get to see your boy per the divorce ruling except during a supervised visit.

That being said, I agree that he needs a whoopin' and he needs to be a man and take it.
 
#483
#483
Most women won't bring up divorce unless they feel that they have something (someone) already lined up to go to. They usually have an ability to go along as if nothing is wrong until they have their plan set. Then they yank the rug from underneath your feet all the while blaming you for not picking up on the signs that something was wrong. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, Pimp, but the fact is that nothing is going to be fixed if only one of you are wanting to fix it.
 
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Doyle Hargraves said:
Most women won't bring up divorce unless they feel that they have something (someone) already lined up to go to. They usually have an ability to go along as if nothing is wrong until they have their plan set. Then they yank the rug from underneath your feet all the while blaming you for not picking up on the signs that something was wrong....
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It isn't always the woman who brings up divorce.
 
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Doyle Hargraves said:
Most women won't bring up divorce unless they feel that they have something (someone) already lined up to go to. They usually have an ability to go along as if nothing is wrong until they have their plan set. Then they yank the rug from underneath your feet all the while blaming you for not picking up on the signs that something was wrong. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, Pimp, but the fact is that nothing is going to be fixed if only one of you are wanting to fix it.
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Exactly what she did. And as long as I am the one fixing **** while she keeps breaking it, it will never work. And it is not working. And that is the ****ing reason why it is not working. Because she is not doing one ****ing thing to help. So, while she keeps saying she knows it won't work, everything is working, except her of course. Really pathetic that she tried to make me look like a "bad" person. What kind of sorry muther****a was/am I married to? What a traitorous son of a *****. Why get married if the person had the potential to do this to you? Especially in this manner. As a person who never, ever met his father, all I wanted was to have a wife and be able to raise my family like mine never was. Slim possibility now.
 
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PimpVol said:
Exactly what she did. And as long as I am the one fixing **** while she keeps breaking it, it will never work. And it is not working. And that is the ****ing reason why it is not working. Because she is not doing one ****ing thing to help. So, while she keeps saying she knows it won't work, everything is working, except her of course. Really pathetic that she tried to make me look like a "bad" person. What kind of sorry muther****a was/am I married to? What a traitorous son of a *****. Why get married if the person had the potential to do this to you? Especially in this manner. As a person who never, ever met his father, all I wanted was to have a wife and be able to raise my family like mine never was. Slim possibility now.
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regardless of how this works out between you and your wife, you will always control your relationship with your kids, and be their Dad
 
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#491
Wives have the mindset of the Christian god. They love you but constantly test you. They will be there for you if you are willing to change yourself into what they feel is acceptable. They are not to be questioned in their ways or decisions but you are to answer to them for your every thought and action. Break any of these commandments and expect to be in hell.








I think I have a pretty healthy view on women.
 
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Doyle Hargraves said:
Most women won't bring up divorce unless they feel that they have something (someone) already lined up to go to. They usually have an ability to go along as if nothing is wrong until they have their plan set. Then they yank the rug from underneath your feet all the while blaming you for not picking up on the signs that something was wrong. I'm sorry to hear about your situation, Pimp, but the fact is that nothing is going to be fixed if only one of you are wanting to fix it.
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My situation exactly. What a whore.
 
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Doyle Hargraves said:
Wives have the mindset of the Christian god. They love you but constantly test you. They will be there for you if you are willing to change yourself into what they feel is acceptable. They are not to be questioned in their ways or decisions but you are to answer to them for your every thought and action. Break any of these commandments and expect to be in hell.








I think I have a pretty healthy view on women.
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On an otherwise normal day, my wife will just perpetrate (used as a verb) like she is mad. Then, if the baby ambles in, she will smile @ him and say something nice. And I'm all like, "wtf, thought you were mad?". What changed that quick? She really seems to be being fake to one or both of us. What could happen to make a person be this way? Why put actual effort into being such a person?

It is almost like she has created her own personal version of Hell and wants me to suffer in it. Interesting you said that. Because if she was not making a choice to be this way, everyone else in our family is fine. Everything else is fine. Weird.
 
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Doyle Hargraves said:
Wives have the mindset of the Christian god. They love you but constantly test you. They will be there for you if you are willing to change yourself into what they feel is acceptable. They are not to be questioned in their ways or decisions but you are to answer to them for your every thought and action. Break any of these commandments and expect to be in hell.








I think I have a pretty healthy view on women.
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Great description...
 
#497
#497
PimpVol said:
Smart man. Wish I did the same. Now I need to have another wife, and more kids, just to have a "real" family, whilst I have three kids with this "@%%?#. ****ing nuts I say.
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People always respond the same when I tell them I went through divorce. They'll say something like....

"Oh man, sorry to hear that. Divorce is rough."

I always respond by saying "yeah but not compared to the marriage!"

Divorce for me was like going to the dentist to get a tooth pulled. Sure, the procedure is unpleasant but once that irritating abscess is gone and you've paid your bill, you feel SOOOO much better!
 
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Brave Volunteer said:
People always respond the same when I tell them I went through divorce. They'll say something like....

"Oh man, sorry to hear that. Divorce is rough."

I always respond by saying "yeah but not compared to the marriage!"
Divorce for me was like going to the dentist to get a tooth pulled. Sure, the procedure is unpleasant but once that irritating abscess is gone and you've paid your bill, you feel SOOOO much better!
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You must not have had kids with this person.
 
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