I'm just "Joe Q. Fan" sitting in the corner end zone with no affiliation with the university other than being a lifetime fan...I'm not Bruce Pearl. Your rationale would exclude anyone from giving the kid anything. I've done my homework PJ.
Extra Benefit: An extra benefit is any special arrangement by an institutional employee or an athletics representative to provide a prospect or a student-athlete (or the prospect or student-athlete's relatives or friends) with a benefit not expressly authorized by NCAA legislation. The following are examples of extra benefits:
Giving cash or loans in any amount.
Signing or co-signing a note with an outside agency to arrange a loan.
Employing relatives or friends of a student-athlete.
Giving gifts of any kind (e.g., birthday, Christmas, Valentine's Day) or free services (e.g., clothing, airline tickets, laundry, car repair, haircuts, meals in restaurants).
Providing special discounts for goods or services.
Providing use of an automobile.
Providing a meal other than in your home on special infrequent occasions (e.g., Thanksgiving, birthday).
Providing use of your summer home to go water skiing, hunting, etc.
Providing transportation for any purpose.
Providing rent-free or reduced-rent housing.
Providing a benefit connected with on- or off-campus housing (e.g., television set, stereo equipment).
Providing tickets to an athletic, institutional or community event.
Providing a guarantee of a bond.
Providing promise of financial aid for postgraduate education.
Promising employment after college graduation.