It goes back farther than that...the royalist nations of Europe, England and Austria most of all at first, hated the Republic and tried to destroy it immediately after the Revolution...all the wars that happened after that, up to and beyond the time Napolean took over are just extensions of that.
Before I really started studying the period, I too misplaced a lot of the blame. For 22 years Europe tried to destroy the Republic/Empire and almost always got their ass handed to them before first the Penninsular war and then the French disaster of the Russian winter of 1812-13.
The other great powers of Europe were never going to stop until the had beaten the Republic/Empire..they would lose, sign armistice and then regroup and reform and attack France again.
It is a lot more complicated than what I thought...I see Napolean differently than I did before.