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Happy fathers day to me.. woke up this morning and found out my wife of 12 years cheated on me. I'm sorry I know this isn't the place for this but I just have to vent anonymously. I feel like my world is caving and I dont know what to do. I know I should leave her but I cant think of her not in my life. I'm a grown man who is scared of what may come from this.

Oh man...life is too short to waste on somebody that doesn't love you enough to be faithful. I was there 20 years ago, and will never do it again. I've been married to an angel that really does love me for the last 18 years..the difference is monumental.
 
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Ooohhh, Fleetwood almost had a 62, an Open record, alone, but instead, he was a 63 and tied with 5 others for the Open record. One back of the leaders, but I see a lot of birdies, maybe even an eagle or 2 in this finish
 
The Guuc will probably say it’s swill, and might as well be drinking horse piss, but I picked up a 6 pack of Sierra Nevada’s new juicy IPA.

“Hazy Little Thing”

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Happy fathers day to me.. woke up this morning and found out my wife of 12 years cheated on me. I'm sorry I know this isn't the place for this but I just have to vent anonymously. I feel like my world is caving and I dont know what to do. I know I should leave her but I cant think of her not in my life. I'm a grown man who is scared of what may come from this.

Same thing happened to a friend of mine. I think he'd agree it was one of the best and worst things he's had to go through. His ex was never, or rarely, good to him and put him through more than just adultery. He's remarried to someone that everyone agrees is perfect for him.

Hope the best for you, sir.
 
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Not at all JP already knows Crouch. He was listed as the #1 Rb in the 19 class last yr. He camped at Bama. He and I were in the same hotel and I met him, his coach, and his homeboy who at the time was commited to NC St. This kid has it all and with a elite sized frame.

What are your thoughts on Pruitt and the staff so far? I'm thinking by year two we should have a stout team. And if all goes as planned, by year three we should have a championship caliber program.
 
I appreciate all the words of wisdom. We have 2 children together 9 and 4. I found out by snapchat which she then said all they did was send pictures. I had her phone and talked as her then found out that it had been physical. It only happened once but they continued to talk and hide it afterwards. He sent me his address cause when i was acting like her i said i needed it again. I jumped in my truck and tore down the road. I continued to snap while driving and found out that he didn't know who I was or that I existed. I then told him this is her husband and you just saved your life. He apologized profusely saying hes not like that he doesn't mess with other men's wives she told him we were divorced. As angry as I was I couldn't see how me going and breaking his face was fair when all he thought he was doing was talking to a single mom. The part that gets me even more is we had been fine no fighting no more arguing than what was normal(minimal). It didn't happen on fathers day it happened April 6 which was 3 days after we just got back from our amazing week vacation in the mountains. I'm in a bad spot and I'm scared She was my world my high school sweetheart been together 12 years I'm only 27(married for 8) I dont want to be over but I dont know how I can forgive her I cant think of how she can make this up to me. She says she wants to ans loves me and all of that but how can she... this isn't the first time it's happened in the past but we were young and immature. I thought she was past this. I cannot imagine her not in my life and I cant figure out how to forgive her.


Sorry for the long post.
 
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What are your thoughts on Pruitt and the staff so far? I'm thinking by year two we should have a stout team. And if all goes as planned, by year three we should have a championship caliber program.

Have known JP for a while, and he's a very good teacher and talent evaluator. His staff is amazing especially on defense. Time will tell on offense Helton is a good offensive mind and has worked under some really good offensive minds at WKU and USC. Friend is an excellent OL coach and will recruit well. Coach YAC will be a star on the staff at a position that needs it most. Weinke is the ine who was a head scratcher but I figure its about inroads to IMG.
 
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I appreciate all the words of wisdom. We have 2 children together 9 and 4. I found out by snapchat which she then said all they did was send pictures. I had her phone and talked as her then found out that it had been physical. It only happened once but they continued to talk and hide it afterwards. He sent me his address cause when i was acting like her i said i needed it again. I jumped in my truck and tore down the road. I continued to snap while driving and found out that he didn't know who I was or that I existed. I then told him this is her husband and you just saved your life. He apologized profusely saying hes not like that he doesn't mess with other men's wives she told him we were divorced. As angry as I was I couldn't see how me going and breaking his face was fair when all he thought he was doing was talking to a single mom. The part that gets me even more is we had been fine no fighting no more arguing than what was normal(minimal). It didn't happen on fathers day it happened April 6 which was 3 days after we just got back from our amazing week vacation in the mountains. I'm in a bad spot and I'm scared She was my world my high school sweetheart been together 12 years I'm only 27(married for 8) I dont want to be over but I dont know how I can forgive her I cant think of how she can make this up to me. She says she wants to ans loves me and all of that but how can she... this isn't the first time it's happened in the past but we were young and immature. I thought she was past this. I cannot imagine her not in my life and I cant figure out how to forgive her.


Sorry for the long post.

Geeeez, that’s tough. I’d save screenshots of everything and go talk to a lawyer.
 
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Sorry to hear that TV91. I'm all about forgiving her but if she has a history that's something you have to strongly take into consideration that she will do it again in the future. Also if she's telling this guys she's divorced she might already be thinking of how to start the process. It sounds like she already left you in her heart and she's just giving you lip service to make herself feel better.
 
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