Wickman
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This is from a workshop/lecture/whatever you want to call it I went to last week.
They reiterated several times:
- If alcohol is involved, you're pretty much done for.
- You must gain VERBAL consent.
That is just what I heard.
I'd rather not get into this discussion, for the sake of everyone reading this thread.
Watching Jennings run for a TD yesterday, my first thought was he's fast! My second was can the coaches get him on the field this year in some capacity? RB? WR? Seems a shame to have him sit out this fall as a RS QB.
The very moment a female takes a sip of alcohol, she is deemed unable to give consent.
This is by law. You didn't need to give this elaborate story. If she drinks, it's considered sexual assault.
As a criminal defense attorney, I have discussed this with colleagues on multiple occasions. One of the ways that someone can be convicted of rape in TN is without the effective consent by the victim and the defendant knows or has reason to know at the time the victim did not consent. So, what if she first consented but then changed her mind halfway through? If alcohol is involved, then it blurs everything. Alcohol effects memory and clear thinking for both individuals. Frankly, it's kind of a scary definition. I basically rephrased some of your scenario, and there is no good answer.
That is not in the Tennessee Code. It's decent advice. But it's probably more accurate to say if you can't drive then consent is dicey. Not impossible to give, but dicey.
This is correct. But even if it's decent advice (which is questionable, at least in certain circumstances--e.g., my wife and I couldn't have consummated our wedding night if this advice was followed), it's completely unrealistic advice. I like your rule much better--if you want to hook up with a stranger who is "too drunk to drive," then be careful. They can definitely still consent at the legal limit, though.
But the problem of course is that it's hard to tell how impaired someone is, especially if you yourself are impaired. And the bigger problem, ultimately, is that the other person could be stone cold sober and still accuse you of rape--and even if you're not convicted, you are likely to get branded a rapist, kicked out of school, excoriated on VN, etc.
Guys...
My baby girl is struggling today. She's had issues with her breathing since yesterday, which is caused from her heart failure.
I'm breaking into pieces.
They're working on her again.
Please pray for her.
Guys...
My baby girl is struggling today. She's had issues with her breathing since yesterday, which is caused from her heart failure.
I'm breaking into pieces.
They're working on her again.
Please pray for her.
This is the main reason I think Jennings will be right in the thick of the QB race in the next couple of years. He has the ability and the work ethic. It really boils down to whether he can tap into all that potential.