In a lot of ways, it really is. Jersey peeps and even a lot of NYC peeps are far more like us than folks realize. I know NYC sounds pretty shocking but I'm talking native New Yorkers as many of them are like us in that they have the tendency to talk and want to get to know any stranger they meet. They are as outgoing and talkative as we are. And share with the outgoing and chattiness that other regions find off-putting. And like us, they're the opposite of reserved, although they're language can be far more blunt than ours (LOL).
That aspect, of course varies from people to people and from neighborhood to neighborhood and borough to borough and cabbies are still rude as are certain people in the city but tons of New Yorkers have a ton more in common with us than they do with the rest of the North, Midwest, or California (those are all places far more reserved than either of us and look at you as though you have a third head and wonder 'what you want from them' when we're just being polite and friendly). A lot of Upstate New Yorkers are the same or even more like us (lots of rural life up there).
Blew me the hell away.
ETA: Forgive the typos. Everytime I edit and see it as a post I see something I've missed. One of those days for me. Dyslexia acting up due to migraine, FTW!