Round 2 of my thoughts and opinions: (not facts). sorry for the novel.
Generally speaking, I am conservative because I never think the best thing is for the government to try and fix our problems. In most cases they make things worse.
Democrats: they have got to stop making everything a racial issue and they have got to stop assuming that best solution is to simply throw government funded $’s at every problem, especially black and white families living in poverty. It’s ok to help folks get back on their feet but Democrats need more constructive and longer term solutions to reduce crime and welfare and help people become productive citizens and have pride in becoming contributors to society. I think it insults black and white people’s intelligence and pride to keep saying “you poor and helpless people who aren’t capable of doing anything on your own, you need the big ole government to handle everything for you”. There appear to be more and more African Americans moving to the conservative side because they are tired of being insulted by the philosophy of “you aren’t good enough to be successful on your own”.
Republicans: I believe the majority are not racists but I think they need to try harder to show a little more compassion and spend more time just listening. In other words, PROVE that you care about the well being of all races. Yes, I know the message is that “we don’t see color and everyone is equal with an equal opportunity to work hard and pave their own way”. Yes, I know MLK also also said he wanted to live in a world without color. Very true. However, it is not fair and also very arrogant for white people (myself included) to say they understand what it’s like to live in the inner city and what it is like to live among gangs and drugs and to try and survive every day. Ricky- sorry, you have no idea. We arrogantly say “you have as much opportunity as anyone else - just suck it up, work hard and you can successfully immediately”. Not quite that simple Just like the Dems, Republicans also need to listen more and come up with better solutions other than - “you brought this on yourself- just get the education, job, etc everyone else gets and your problems will be solved. Easy as pie. Sorry - it’s just not this easy. There is some deep seated pain/hurt, hopelessness, breakdown of families, drugs, violence etc that isn’t going to be solved without listening and caring. And, yes, let’s be honest - there HAS been racism and their continues to be racism. We can’t just pretend it doesn’t exist at all (just like DEMs think racism is the root of every problem).
In summary, both sides need to listen a more and not assume they understand the other side.