Hey Volprof let me make it simple for you. Let's get to the bottom line as far as God is concerned. Plain and simple homosexuality is a sin. The wages of sin is death. Homosexuality is a sin just like other things such as drunkenness, using the Lord's name in vain, etc. Further, homosexuality is a sin which is defined both in the New and Old Testament.
Every single person God put on this earth made us predisposed to certain sins. I can tell you I am not predisposed to homosexuality but I am predisposed to other sins. Yes, I can do certain sins very easily. See how simple that is?!
Finally, if you are correct in you "educated" secular view and I am wrong then no big issue. On the other hand, if I am correct you will have a long and unpleasant time thinking I wish I would have listened to that man! I'm not PC but a unapologetic follower of Jesus Christ. Love the person but hate the SIN!
It's as simple as going to God with a repentant heart, asking for forgiveness, and asking him to come into your life. I am an example of how God will forgive sins! It's that simple but unfortunately some will never understand!