it doesn't matter what she is or was: He was the authority figure, as assistant coach and/or head coach, and the onus was on him to be the responsible adult. Summitt would have been wise to hold off getting married. I guess I know why some people get married in their early 20s, but I would recommend against it as those who do have a very high chance of being divorced after about 10 years, often sooner. One's 20s are the years to explore, have fun, find your niche, and gradually mature. He's facing a hard lesson--her, too.