NurseGoodVol
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I’ve been in ICU for the entire covid run. I got covid at work resulting in 2 weeks of illness in March 2020. July 2020 I started traveling. I saw how each hospital dealt with covid, what worked and what didn’t. I saw overwhelming lapses in infection control, delay of treatment, improper guidance from the cdc and and some circumstances that were just counter intuitive to everything we know about viruses.I really feel for the workers. I know one ones job is "easy", but she has come home and just broke down a bunch. She always says she's fine holding it together at work, but once she gets home she has to let it out. I'm not sure where you stand in all this mess. I know my wife walked into work for a year trying to help fight something they new nothing about and was called a hero, then less then a year was told if she didn't take the shot she was a killer.
She said it wasn't that she wasn't for it, its that anything they asked was met with "just take it", "if you don't you don't care about anyone but yourself". Which IMO it a cruel thing to say to someone who risked their life for you not a year ago instead for staying at home in fear like a bunch of other people. I think it fair to ask what side affects it could have before getting stuck.
Either way I wish you the best on your shifts, and wish you healthiness as you guys go into this mess.
I don’t have a problem with those wanting the vaccine, I’ll even help them find a place to get it. I will not give the shot or receive it. I have offered at every place I’ve worked to be tested for antibodies. They all refuse the offer at my expense. My confusion lies in the fact, I’ve had a very active case of a virus, self treated at home going against some cdc guidelines, came out on the other side to find the medical world is losing its mind over a shot they aren’t willing , but given every opportunity, to prove I need.
Refused x 2 testing for my original covid, refused antibody testing by my doctor, refused antibody testing by 4 facilities including my current job.
I’m willing to put my money where my mouth is but for some strange reason they won’t order the test.
It has been very hard to watch people die without family present. The nurse is usually the only one with them when they pass. My grief load over that alone is tremendous. Once they are vented, we know what happens. They die. To say that grief overload isn’t a thing would be a lie.
Knowing alternative treatments are out there that could prevent them from entering the hospital in the first place and having the vaccine being pushed as the ONLY answer is one of those counter intuitive things I spoke of earlier.
If the only answer your wife is receiving is just take it, one of the key tenants to receiving treatment for any therapy, procedure or drug is informed consent. There is no informed consent with this shot. I don’t know if anyone realizes this there is the cdc saying it’s safe and then there’s the reality of we don’t have any assurances that’s true in 2 years. I tell my pts every drug I give them it’s use and possible side effects. They have the right to refuse the drug. I also withhold drugs on medical judgement of need and explain why I’m holding the drug. It is their healthcare and they should be involved in it. These are listed in the patients Bill of rights, yet healthcare workers are devoid of any rights? No.
We are already redlining on nursing shortages, let them go ahead with the agenda and the healthcare nursing shortages will get worse. Talk about healthcare systems shooting themself in the foot. Seems almost the best intention will end up with the worst results.
I appreciate your thoughts. I wish you and your wife well.