AshG
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Your problem is assuming anyone on the left understands "net worth", cash, assets, etc. Their horrific journalism degrees don't teach any of that.
I know some single parents that have pulled themselves out of poverty through sacrifice.
So do I. But it was because they either didn't have connections, or found ways to sever the connections, to parents/relatives who initially acted as limiting factors. They had to cut themselves off and (in some cases forcibly) separate themselves from what should have been a source of strength.
Sometimes you have a kill a family in order to save your own.
At the same time as I agree with this, I have to append the following.
Across all major and most minor belief systems and dogmas in recorded history is the idea that mistakes, sin, curses, what have you, carry from one generation to the next and on down until it is broken either through benevolence or intense sacrifice. Only in the religion of Americanism is the script of thousands of years of civilization flipped, where each generation of the poor, indigent, and broken are absolved of all sources of struggle and told to heal themselves or deal with it.
Not once in the poor / indigent / homeless ministry did anyone I was serving ever say "At least I don't live in North Sudan."
The "better off here than elsewhere" is a mental game we choose to use as an numbing agent to the very real plights of those around us.
I hope you do! You didn't go into the business of education for money or you would be laying on your lazy ass in Chicago.
He “survives”.
Both family vehicles were gifts. A relative helps pay for the therapy that keeps my daughter from being suicidal. All of my medical bills are on payment plans, and I'm still paying off medical bills from 2017. Nothing goes into long-term savings. I haven't had my prosthetic leg adjusted in over a year because I know I can't afford to have the vacuum pump replaced.
Forgive me for trying to put a positive spin on things.
But you and your wife have professional jobs so you’re not in danger of having to move the family underneath an interstate bridge.
Both family vehicles were gifts. A relative helps pay for the therapy that keeps my daughter from being suicidal. All of my medical bills are on payment plans, and I'm still paying off medical bills from 2017. Nothing goes into long-term savings. I haven't had my prosthetic leg adjusted in over a year because I know I can't afford to have the vacuum pump replaced.
Forgive me for trying to put a positive spin on things.
We were homeless and living out of a motel part of the summer of 2020. We were both laid off because of Covid related budget cuts. A combination of family assistance and keeping going after 40+ job applications is why we're not bankrupt right now.
I don't know now that I'm in Maryland. I have to drive to the coast to get to a Hanger Prosthetics (I'm in the western mountain region). Plenty of time to do that this week.
Just stop. There is help here available to those that want it. There is none in North Sudan. There is none for those orphans in Siberia. I saw first hand where the tsunami came ashore in eastern India and where those displaced people lived, then I listened to those displaced in New Orleans after Katrina whining about their FEMA trailers air conditioning. Sorry. it is not a numbing agent. Yes, there are poor people here, but by and large they have no idea what real poverty isNot once in the poor / indigent / homeless ministry did anyone I was serving ever say "At least I don't live in North Sudan."
The "better off here than elsewhere" is a mental game we choose to use as an numbing agent to the very real plights of those around us.
Just stop. There is help here available to those that want it. There is none in North Sudan. There is none for those orphans in Siberia. I saw first hand where the tsunami came ashore in eastern India and where those displaced people lived, then I listened to those displaced in New Orleans after Katrina whining about their FEMA trailers air conditioning. Sorry. it is not a numbing agent. Yes, there are poor people here, but by and large they have no idea what real poverty is