Roustabout
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This^None of my 4 grandparents finished high school, or got arrested, and were married to with their one and only spouse until death. They were already in their 40's when the Great Depression hit. I'm not sure it was that big of an adjustment to them, because they were already poor. What makes this such a great country is that we have progressed to the point that really very, very few people have as meager of an existence as most people did around here 100 years ago.
It is sad and frustrating that folks think poverty is a "cause" of crime. The associations of crime and poverty are there, but not in the causal sense they are thinking. The difference in our grandparents and the current generation is ethics. Hard work was not anathema. My grandmother told me stories of being mocked at Clinton highschool because her clothes were made from feedbags.
There is one thing that if anyone does, regardless of race, they will not live in poverty. Finish high school, and don't have a child out of wedlock. That's it.
I've worked in the urban areas and many (not all) of these people don't know what real poverty is like. I recall handing out back packs with school supplies about 12 years ago. We were in the Vestal community. As I handed a pack to one boy, who seemed disinterested, i asked him about getting the back pack. He said it was the 3rd one he received that week. After talking with the people in the community we found out there were a number of other groups doing the same thing. Since this wasn't the focus of our mission, we stopped. Charity in our community is as much about making people feel good about "giving" than it is about meeting any actual needs. I'm not saying there aren't needs, just not people standing in bread lines. In fact, much of our poor have shelter, food, cell phones and cable. Those going without are likely ignorant to the resources available.
The poverty in rural Appalachia is far worse than our urban areas.