Use your best judgment and decide for yourselves.
I am immunocompromised, as is my mother in law. So was my mom (she passed in April). My wife and I took the vaccine because we determined the short term benefit outweighed the long term risks. We're a very family oriented bunch and wanted to protect the most at-risk among us.
Those of you wanting people to get the vaccine, try a different tactic. Respect their choices and stop barking at them about what you perceive as their selfishness. Be kind and listen. Hear what they're saying. That doesn't mean you have to agree, but listen with an open mind and try to understand their choice. And above all, be kind.