But it only looks like that because of the info we are being fed. I would agree that based on what I have seen, it definitely does not look like this was a well orchestrated invasion in any way or that things are going all that well for Russia. That said, I understand my own biases and am trying to look beyond them in what information is being fed to us by a media who is part of the proxy campaign our military is waging.
Whether in the last century = The first casualty when war comes is truth - Hiram W Johnson
or ancient times = In war, truth is the first casualty. - Aeschylus
or even a quote from a popular game Call of Duty:
“This is for the record. History is written by the victor. History is filled with liars. If he lives, and we die, his truth becomes written - and ours is lost. Shepherd will be a hero, 'cause all you need to change the world is one good lie and a river of blood. He's about to complete the greatest trick a liar ever played on history. His truth will be the truth. But only if he lives, and we die.” ― Captain John Price
Trouble is that all humans tend to think it is the "other guys" who are telling the lies, so that we do not see it from our own.
Point is - who knows what the upshot of all this will be in the end? Russia may be better or worse off after all this but Ukraine will most certainly not "win" much of anything, irrespective of the outcome.