How old were you in 1991? Better yet, where were you?
Because I was in Saudi Arabia as part of Desert Storm. Shock and awe is not the firebombing of Dresden you so desperately want to believe it is. Iraq did most of the damage to Kuwaiti infrastructure, set the oil wells ablaze, tortured POWs and so on.
Shock and awe is hitting the enemy with overwhelming force, not letting them regroup, and not letting up until they capitulate. Had your boy Putin adopted that approach in Ukraine, it might very well have taken only two weeks. It would have helped to have had a capable military, too.
You clearly don’t know your ass from a hole in the ground when it comes to military tactics and warfare in general.